A grinning thug who spiked his girlfriend’s drink and pushed her to the brink of suicide with his relentless campaign of abuse has been jailed.
Lance Cole ‘destroyed’ his ex-lover’s life by subjecting her to an horrendous ordeal, which saw the brute lace her drink with a sleeping pill and repeatedly attack her.
The shameless 35-year-old – who was pictured smiling in a police mugshot after being arrested – bombarded his former partner with phone calls when he did not know where she was and on one occasion threatened to kill himself in front of her.
Now, the ‘manipulative’ and ‘unpleasant’ bully has been handed a three-year prison sentence for his ‘thoughtless’ conduct which had a ‘considerable impact’ on his ex.
Southampton Crown Court heard Cole and his victim formed a romantic relationship in the summer of 2023 after knowing each other for nearly two decades.
Shameless bully Lance Cole is pictured grinning in his police mugshot after being arrested for abusing his former girlfriend
The court heard Cole, pictured right, spiked his girlfriend and violently attack her
Prosecutor Keely Harvey told the court the relationship was ‘fun and uplifting’ in the early stages, but soon turned sour.
It was heard how over the course of seven months, Cole regularly threatened his victim and was often violent in front of her.
On one occasion he wrapped a robe tie around his neck and attached it to the door, telling the victim he was going to end his life.
He also punched her wing mirror as he shouted abuse, before snapping the gearstick in her vehicle.
Ms Harvey said: ‘He refused to get out of her vehicle, so she drove him home and started to pack up her things.
‘The victim started to grab her bag to leave but he snatched it, causing her to fall back onto the sofa and injure herself.
‘Later that same day a heated argument started, and the defendant threw a glass at the wall.’
Cole was known to bombard his victim with phone calls and messages if she was not with him, or he did not know where she was.
It was heard how over the course of seven months, Cole regularly threatened his victim and was often violent in front of her. Cole is pictured grinning on a car journey.
In another online snap, smiling bully Cole is seen posing next to TV presenter Dominic Littlewood (who is pictured right)
After spending the night with her family after Christmas, the victim woke up to 21 missed calls and 15 messages from Cole.
The court also heard how Cole had spiked his ex-partner’s drink with a sleeping pill.
It was in January of this year the victim decided she finally had enough and left him.
Appearing in court, she tearfully described the impact Cole has had on her life.
‘He betrayed my trust on every level, and I suffered at his hands’, she said.
She told the court how she used to be confident in herself and had ‘a simple life’ that meant the world to her.
She said: ‘I begged him to treat me better.
‘In December 2023 I felt I had reached my breaking point. I wrote down my goodbyes in letters and I knew how I wanted to end my life.
‘I didn’t see a way out and felt broken.
‘It makes my blood run cold when I think of what he has done to me. It has been 205 days since I last saw him, and I am plagued with worry.
‘He destroyed my life.’
Cole was sentenced at Southampton Crown Court (pictured)
Cole, of Nursling, Hampshire, pleaded guilty to one count of engaging in controlling and coercive behaviour, and one count of intimidating a witness.
He was found guilty of harassment without violence by a jury at Southampton Magistrates’ Court earlier this year.
Mitigating, Lucy Conroy said he has shown some ‘good reflection’ on his actions while in custody at HMP Winchester.
Passing sentence, Judge Peter Henry described his actions as ‘manipulative’.
‘It is obvious that your conduct has had a considerable impact upon the victim, what you did was thoughtless and unpleasant’, he said.
Cole was jailed for three years and four month.
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